Weekends

Weekends are a time for reflection, relaxation, and family.  Not every weekend that comes around includes these for me, however, when they are included it makes for a perfect weekend.  The one thing that will be missing from this weekend is my dad.  I miss him terribly!  I can't seem to stop thinking about him, talking to him and talking about him.  I knew he was important part of my life but I didn't realize we were BFF.  Every time I have something to share, exciting news, a story, or want to talk with someone, I realize he is the first person I want to call.  This weekend I will be spending my time with my husband, in Puerto Rico!  I will reflect, relax and spend time loving and being with my husband.  When it is all over I will rush home to give my girls the biggest hugs and kisses a mom can and remind them how much I love them with my actions and words.  I embrace my weekend and know that this can get me through my broken heart and missing my dad.  FAMILY IS EVERYTHING!

Friendship

I have had some friendships that date back to my fifth grade year, some from high school, and some from college.  My neighbors, colleagues at work, and family friends.  As my children enter their school world, I am now friends with their friends parents.  I can't imagine my life without my friends.  Every milestone in my life included my friends who have been supporting me along the way.  Some friendships haven't lasted the tests of time, and some I know will be here forever.  I think back on why some friendships don't last. I can say, with confidence, it is not because I haven't put my heart and soul into it.  I pride myself for being a good friend and for being there for the ones I love, this includes my friends.  I know how much I appreciate what my friends do for me and I work everyday to return their love and support in any way that I can.  If a friendship of mine has dissolved, I say shame on you.  Shame on you for taking me for granted and shame on you for thinking it was my fault.  EVERYONE is busy and as a friend, I make the time and embrace the time I have with my friends.  If you take your friendship away, it is your fault, not mine.  You only get to live one life, be sure of your actions before you act.  When your time is up on this Earth will your friends be surrounding you during your last days.......or will you be ALONE?